I introduced you to the “My World Friends Pledge” last month. This is a great way for your kids to start off the New Year. You can find the Pledge at myworldmedia.net. Imagine how different our world would be if everyone lived by the Pledge! Over the coming weeks, we’ll be breaking down the pledge line-by-line and talking about ways to weave these topics into conversation with your children.
On that note, let’s start at the top with “I will Celebrate Differences”. That’s another way of saying “I will be tolerant and kind to those that are different than me”. What a great thing to talk to your kids about! Here are a few questions that you might ask your kids:
- What does Celebrating Differences mean to you?
- Do you have friends that are different than you?
- In what ways are some of your friends different than you?
- Do you think that it’s good when people are different?
- What are the differences in your friends or classmates that you notice the most (ie. glasses, braces, skin color, eye color, etc.)?
- What are some reasons you’re happy that we’re not all exactly the same?
It’s simple to weave this topic into conversation about everyday life, and when you have regular, on-going and open dialogue with your children they will know that the door is always open for a chat. If something is bothering them, something is going on at school, peer-pressure or a dispute with a friend, or they recognize behavior in a friend that is not appropriate, they will feel like it’s natural to talk you about these things. How important is that?! As parents we all want our kids to know that we’re here for them and we will listen and help when help is required. Sometimes just being a good listener is really all they need. When your children confide in you and trust that you will listen without judgment or reaction, it will change the level of your conversations with them.
So, talk-it-out! And then share how your conversation of Celebrating Differences went. We can’t wait to hear from you!